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“As time goes on, people think he’s a company or a brand. I come across people who didn’t know he was a person.”

He starts the film at a speed-dating event where, in a great montage, he disappoints a procession of dewy singletons who shrivel up when this hunk comes across as cold and rude.

Van Loon, added: "So now and then he could come across as laconic, a bit too easy going. Maybe at times some youth managers even thought of him as lazy."

"I feel like you never really come across many young widows so I felt really isolated at the start," she said.

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